Nonbinary
Nonbinary, wants the impossible
Doesn't really want to transition. Goals include less body hair, smoother skin, fuller hips and thighs.
High starch mashed potatoes or German potatoes balls MIGHT help with skin quality.
My opinion about Minor Medical Stuff for mostly aesthetic reasons:
If you are not in a position to pursue HRT and you want a nose job or hair removal or something else relatively small like that and have the means to arrange it, I say go for it and stop connecting it to gender identity and HRT and SRS and blah blah blah blah blah.
One of the few comments I made in a trans space that did well was about hair removal. If you don't like body hair, there's a ZILLION ways to skin that cat in part because millions and millions of people do this having nothing to do with trans anything.
I cannot recommend specific exercises but I have read discussions where people were all "I'm an Asian chick with a flat ass, and OMG if you want some booty, THIS is the exercise for it!!!!"
Go hang out on bodybuilding spaces, READ and look for information that seems like it matches your goals. No need to talk to people about WHY. Probably no need to talk at all.